Joy in Alzheimer's in Second Printing

It’s exciting to find your work included in a popular anthology, especially when it’s a book that’s helping others. I have several essays concerning my mother’s journey through Alzheimer’s in Finding the Joy in Alzheimer’s, Caregivers Share the Joyful Times, by Brenda Avadian.

Imagine my pleasure in learning from Brenda that the book is going into its second printing.

Brenda and I have cared for parents who’ve experienced this illness. Even though it’s a demanding experience, emotionally and physically, you can find rewards in knowing you’re making this loved one’s Alzheimer’s years as pleasant as possible.

My daughter and grandchildren learned from my mom, too. Even when she didn’t know us, we could enjoy activities with this lady in our lives.

Many caregivers have contributed to Finding the Joy in Alzheimer’s. Hopefully this book will aid you if you’re a caregiver for someone with Alzheimer’s.

Brenda also has published Finding the Joy in Alzheimer’s, Book 2.

When We Become the Parent to Our Parents

At first I wrote about Mother's and Auntie's experiences for newspapers and magazines. Soon so many caregivers seemed to be reaching out for comfort, that I began making copies of my articles to share.

Finally a friend said, "Mary, why don't you compile the articles into a book? You can reach so many more people that way."

So the idea for When We Become the Parent to Our Parents evolved and my book, which I also illustrated, resulted. Here I try to give insight into caregiving and to bring comfort and understanding to caregivers.

I've always said, "Alzheimer's is a devastating disease. But it doesn't have to devestate you nor your family member who has it."

I dedicated the book to my mom and aunt, two ladies who were always concerned about other people. Through my writing, they leave a legacy of caring and helping others through this journey in their lives.

(c)2006

(For more information about When We Become the Parent to Our Parents, e-mail me: me.allen@juno.com. Type "Alzheimer's blog" in the subject line.)

Why Write About Alzheimer's?

"That's such a horrible disease," people often remark. "Why do you want to write about your experiences caring for your mom and aunt?"

I learned there could be joy in caring for these ladies...joy in seeing them smile and experience contentment in a world so different from the one we imagined they'd be living while in their eighties. I found joy watching the interaction between my grandchildren and their great grandmother. This created pleasurable memories that will remain with the children throughout their lives.

I learned that life isn't always as we imagined nor planned. However, there often is a purpose in the experiences we face.

By sharing with others the experiences my mom, my aunt, and my family faced, perhaps we can help them in their journey through Alzheimer's.

(c)2006